The global survey conducted by deVere Group, an independent financial advisory organization, found that 61% of filthy-rich people ranked personal finance as the most difficult subject to discuss with family, friends and colleagues. Our heart goes out to them.
Indeed such is their discomfort with their whopping bank balances that they would rather talk about almost anything including politics, sex, religion and health issues according to the study of 1,125 clients, all of whom had investable assets of more than £1 million. The respondents came from the UK, the US, the United Arab Emirates, Hong Kong and South Africa. So wherever you are in the world, just make sure you dont bring up money when talking to a millionaire. It will only make them uncomfortable.
Nigel Green, deVere Group founder and chief executive, comments on the findings: "For many, wealth comes with plenty of intense emotions so perhaps its little wonder that even the better-off prefer to discuss almost anything else including those famous dinner party taboos of politics and religion. Money is the last social taboo, it would seem.
"Money may be on most peoples mind much of the time, but this poll underscores that personal finance which can include income, debt, tax, savings and expenses is almost universally regarded as the worst topic of conversation. I imagine that it might come as a surprise to many that those who have money still dislike talking about it."
Green continues: "On a wider level, the survey indicates how there remains a bury your head in the sand attitude to finances as people simply dont want to talk about money even to their nearest and dearest."
So the next time you meet a millionaire and are tempted to probe them about their bank balance, be careful and sympathetic and maybe steer the conversation towards sex instead.